The success of this game depends on getting both members out of their customary mode of relating, in which the depressed spouse negates both himself and his mate, and the nondepressed spouse continually tries either to soothe him or expresses resentment toward him. In this game, both accept and go along with the depression and the underlying feelings of hopelessness. Further, mirroring the depressed spouse’s hopelessness gives him a glimpse of how he is acting. If they can both accept the depression and allow themselves to have hopeless sex, then they can move on and actually have hopeless sex. Then, ironically, they will find that the sex becomes less hopeless. It may also lead to getting more in touch with the hopelessness and letting go of it.

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