It is crucial for the wife to never, never give up. She must regard this as a battle—which it is! Her husband has maintained his defenses against spontaneity and intimacy for a good reason (let’s say, for example, he had a very intrusive mother), and he may fight almost to the death to protect himself against vulnerability. The wife must therefore be prepared to fight this battle until he finally gives in, never taking any of his refusals or insults personally, never insulting him back or in any way losing her temper, but always sticking firmly and seductively to the game plan.

Once he gives in to the seduction, the rest of the game is easy. Having lured him out of his defensive posture (of being boring), and herself out of her own defensive posture (of being bored or frustrated), there will most likely be a newfound passion for one another, as well as a newfound interest in sex.

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